Sunday, February 22, 2009
Got One Thing Right
Poor Bob :(
I don't really have much to write about other than that, but thought I'd write down some of the things I'm going to achieve today so that I actually do them - yesterday was a complete waste. I watched Grey's Anatomy on my ipod, did some reading, rehearsed some of my lines, tidyed up the lounge room, spent too long on facebook and SS, and took the dogs for a run (not in that order). I could have achieved a lot more! Today I'm going to do the washing, put all my sewing stuff into the sewing desk I nabbed from my mum's last week, try my home brew (hooray!), put all the rubbish in the bins (long story, but since we're on a rural propert, we take our bins into town to have the rubbish collected - and the few days while the bins are in town, the rubbish seems to accumulate around the house because there's nowhere to put it - so, today I'll be cleaning those bits up). That doesn't sound like much either, but the sewing stuff will be a big job.
Saturday, February 21, 2009
Phew
I hate injections. I hate doctor's waiting rooms. In fact, I get panic attacks. Sometimes pretty nasty ones. So since James is at work, my dear MIL came with me to distract me and hold me hand. I was a bit shaky in the waiting room, then the nurse called me into the little procedure room (I don't know what its real name was). As soon as the door was shut, I burst into tears. Now, being a country town-er, we have a fairly small medical practise, and everyone knows everyone, and the doctors can just about remember everyone's history without looking it up, so my faithful wonderful doctor has seen all my previous panic attacks and knows how to deal with me. So anyway, my lovely MIL was playing her part perfectly, and I was doing my best not to let panic take over, but as soon as I felt that needle go in my arm, I just sobbed like a baby cos I knew when he started pushing the anaesthetic in, it would start to hurt LOTS... But, I think I must be either gaining a higher pain threshold as I age, or I'm just getting better at the whole process, cos I felt him dig around a little bit and push anaesthetic in, and I squeezed my MIL's hand tight and said "ow" quite a bit, but then it was over and I made everyone laugh by saying "oh... is that all?". However, I'm always a bit scared the anaesthetic won't work, so my doctor checks it for me before slicing me open. This time though, he couldn't grab the end of the implant and had to dig around a bit, and then the nurse pushed my arm muscle about to try and make it easier for him, and my MIL said to me afterwards that I'd have a sore arm today - she also said she hated watching it, which is weird because she's a cancer survivor so it no stranger to medical stuff and always watches what is done to her (such as needles going in etc) but she didn't like watching it happen to me. But she's wonderful and I love her and I have a sore arm.
I was glued up, but I went for a run this morning (yay for me!) and part of the glue caught on my sleeve which made me rip open my top to see what the hell was making my arm hurt all of a sudden, so no more glue, but it'll leave me with a scar (which doesn't bother me - probably would have left a scar anyway!). So now I'm on the pill - Yasmin. Not too sure about it. Like, I'm pretty sure I'm not ready to get pregnant just yet (I panic about a freakin local anaesthetic for crying out loud!), but I'm still worried that it'll somehow effect my fertility and make things harder for when we do decide to have a baby. I hated having to take my first pill today. Don't know why, but I really felt bad when I did it. I guess perhaps its just a new adjustment for me and I'll be ok after a few days... Right now I have to concentrate on getting/staying healthy cos we both want me to be as healthy as I can be when I do get pregnant for all the obvious reasons. I swear I've put on about 20kgs while using implanon - I told that to my doctor yesterday and he said that was a bit weird to put on so much, but I've looked at a few forums on the topic and it seems like I'm not alone. I haven't had a period in almost 3 years, but I've stacked on the weight. If I'd known this was going to happen, I don't think I would have used implanon. Oh, and another thing about Yasmin - its friggin expensive!!! $80 for a 3 month supply! My implanon cost me $20 for 3 years! But, I used James's account to pay for the pill hehe :)
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
I'm Alive
I got a cat. James named him Bob cos he doesn't have a tail (original or what?). Bob loves to come and see what we're doing when we're on the computer ad promptly lays down on the keyboard. Lets see how far I can get before he pulls that on me...
James has gone back to work. His trip home was full of so many ups and downs. The first night he got home was beautiful - we loaded the ute up with the dogs and esky and drove off to the beach. Had a wonderful night drinking, having fun, and also having a talk about the big things in our lives/future (houses, work, kids etc).
Wednesday (the next day), he just about snaps and we have a massive argument (I don't even remember what it was about). He was still angry with me on Thursday which isn't like him at all - when he gets mad, he gets mad, but its never been for more than an hour or so where he just needs time alone to cool off, and then we make up. Thursday night, I still had no idea what the hell was wrong, and every time I tried to ask him about it, he'd get upset again. I swear he had his period or something *rolls eyes*.
By Saturday, things were better and we were preparing for his step-dad's 60th birthday party. I had a wonderful night, great party, good music and people, all fantastic. It was held at the local golf club, and we'd packed our swag, so at about 2am we drove away from the clubhouse a little bit, and got ready to settle down for the night. Except Mr Shitty Pants cracked it at me again. I wrote it off as a drunken dummy spit which he wouldn't remember in the morning. But he did, and again, wouldn't talk to me about it.
On Sunday, I cracked it at him cos I was friggin sick of his mood, and I drove off. I made it about 1km before I turned around and came back home (as upset as I was).
Things cleared up during the week, all ready for my cousin's engagement party on the following Saturday. Just as we're packing up the ute to get going, I made a comment about how I wasn't really sure if I wanted to camp at the party cos their friends can be real dickheads. For some reason or another, this made James snap again, so we went off to the party in a shit of a mood. The good news was we were the first there (apart from the bride & groom to be), so I vented to her, while he went off with Shane (groom) and we both got our grumps out and all was well again.
The good news is that we've finally sold our old house :) Well, nearly. The contracts are being signed at the moment, but settlement is planned for 11 May, so keep those fingers crossed :) I talked to James's mum about the troubles we'd been having and asked her to try and talk to him if she found the right moment since he wasn't talking to me. She wondered if he was stressed from the house sale because that house is in his name, and our new house is in my name (I'd inherited the land from my dad, and we just hadn't gotten around to adding his name to the title yet, but it was definitely planned). I didn't think that was the reason cos we'd talked about putting his name on the title in the past and were both 100% agreed about it. But I think that was the reason, cos I tried talking to him about the new house title and he perked up immediately. He did apologise at one point and said a lot of things had been stressing him out and he took it out on me, so that was something. Hopefully his next trip home is much nicer.
In the meantime, I'm recharging my batteries tonight cos I'm absolutely stuffed. James has been at me to be more active cos I love my tv and my books and if I can get away with it, I'll sit around all day (not every day, but if I'm in the middle of a good book, or a good tv show comes on, you don't have to twist my arm to get me to sit down). So while he's been at home, I've been doing my best to avoid tv and books in an effort to be more active, and while its worked, I'm fucked. I've been so busy that I haven't been sleeping enough or eating the right foods, so its time for a bit of healthy eating and getting to bed early.
And on that note, I'm off to plonk on the couch and watch Neighbours. Pathetic, eh? :)
Sunday, February 1, 2009
Its Crunch Time
Last year I did Adelaide's City to Bay fun run which is 12km - and I ran it. Well, not all the way :) But I did enter as a runner, and I trained for it, and I loved running. But after the fun run, the lady at the gym advised to take a few days off training to let my body recover. I've now taken about 4 months lol. I'm by no means the gym bunny I sound like - I'm very overweight, and even when I was training, I ate a lot more, so I didn't really lose heaps of weight, but I did have a reasonable level of fitness. Time to get that back :) I wish I'd had my blood pressure checked when I was City to Bay training - high blood pressure runs in my family, and at the age of 23, I've recently had blood pressure readings of 140/80. So while its not time for medication, it certainly is time to fire up my exercise again and look after my poor heart.
In other news, I'm still very concerned about my home brew (and I'm still not sure if that's supposed to be one word or two - homebrew, home brew? Dunno!). According to the instructions, my airlock is supposed to be bubbling. It wasn't. So, as per the instructions, I undid the lid a bit and resealed. Then not long after, I noticed I had a sort of meringue forming on my beer! Not sure if its supposed to froth that much... And then, realised there was no more water left in the airlock, so I poured a little bit in, and upon checking about 20 mins ago, the airlock is bubbling away happily. Go figure. Hopefully it works lol.
Busy week ahead - got a rehearsal tomorrow night, James flies home Tuesday, should be getting an offer on our old house on Wednesday, another rehearsal on Thursday, probably have friends over for drinks on Friday, Saturday is my cousin's engagement party, and on Sunday I should be bottling my beer if its fermented long enough. Whew! I don't know about other FIFO wives/partners, but our house gets a whole lot messier when James is at work cos I just get so lazy and leave crap everywhere. So some time between now and Tuesday morning, I need to have a pick up.
Saturday, January 31, 2009
Ahh That's Better
Sheryn (MIL) and I went for an hour's drive up to our nearest major shopping town and spent money at Woolies, Target, and Cheap As Chips. I've got a new shopping strategy - never take a trolley :) I only used baskets today in the shops and I think it worked cos once I was lugging around a full and sometimes heavy basket, I just wanted to get out of there!
At Target I splashed out on some new underwear (which was marked down, so I saved as well!), a $20 earring and necklace set to wear with a dress I already have for my SFIL's 6th birthday next Saturday, and a book called Crunch Time by Michelle Bridges (aka the red team trainer in the Biggest Loser). The hot weather has made it really hard to exercise because not only does it confine me to inside, it also makes me lethargic and lazy and gives me more excuses. After seeing myself in a few mirrors at Target today, I decided I really need to do something about my weight. Its just not funny anymore (not that it ever was). I've battled with my weight ever since I've had an implanon contraceptive rod put in my arm (5.5 years) and my blood pressure is high (which is disappointing and a bit scary since I'm only 23), and in all honesty, I look gross. I hate seeing my reflection cos I can't hide from it.
But in happy news, I bought a home brew kit today :) I can't wait to taste my first brew. I've made up a canadian blonde mix and I hope to god I haven't stuffed it up! I've decided to brew it in our bathroom because its cool and we don't use it (we use the ensuite). James will probably hate it, but shit happens, and its only for a week until I can bottle it. But, when I made it up at 6pm, it was still hot and even the water coming out of the cold tap wasn't cold enough. The instructions say to have its temperature between 21 and 27 degrees - mine was hovering around 32. The instructions also suggest to add ice if it needs cooling. No ice here, so I flew into town, grabbed a bag, and flew back, taking about 30 minutes, so I hope that hasn't stuffed it up at all. It was before I added the yeast, but after I added the sugar, but I stirred it up again to make sure nothing had settled at the bottom before I added the yeast, so I hope I haven't stuffed it up! Just what I need - something else for James to say "I told you it wasn't going to be good..."
It was hot again today, but last night and tonight have been quite cool and windy. For instance right now its only 23 degrees and there's a massive breeze blowing through the house. Its good though cos it gives the dogs a bit of a reprieve, and it means I can turn the air con off :) I've heard so many stories of people's pets dying in the heat, so I've been trying my best to keep mine cool and they seem to be going ok. I'd hate to lose one!
Friday, January 30, 2009
Thank God That's Over
I emailed James some of the photos I posted to show him how good the zoom is etc. I think he's still cranky that I bought the camera. *sigh* We needed a new camera, and ours is a digital camera that you can also do videos with. He wanted a video camera that also takes stills. I'm yet to figure out why he wanted a video camera - there honestly hasn't been times when we've thought "damn, wish we had a video camera to capture that on". I just don't get it. But, I should've waited an extra day and talked to him first before I bought it. But shit happens, its over and done with now, and he'll just have to get over it sooner or later.
Still, we ended the phone conversation crappily, so I guess I'm a bit down about that too. I just wish he was home. Flies back on Tuesday. 4 sleeps to go...
Today I've decided to do something positive for myself and our finances by declaring war on my car loan. I currently have $16,500 left to pay off. So, every spare cent I have will go towards extra payments on that. I've bought one of those money boxes that can only be opened by a can opener, so all my change will go into that. Once its full, I'll put it into my loan. And I get paid fortnightly, so at every pay, if I'e got any money leftover from the last pay, I'll transfer that across into the loan. I'm not sure if it'll make a lot of difference, but its worth a shot. The more debt I pay now, the less we'll have to pay later.
We were expecting to receive an offer on our old house today, but we won't get it until Wednesday now. The people interested have been advised by their bank to not make an offer until Wednesday in case interest rates come down between now and then. If interest rates do come down and end up enabling them to offer more, then its all good, but we're impatient and want to know what kind of ball park range they're thinking. We should make at least $35k out of the sale, which $16,500 was going to pay out my car loan, and the rest was going to go on our mortgage (hence me wanting to pay the car loan off - means we can take more off the mortgage in the long run).
I'm going shopping with my MIL tomorrow - going to Cheap As Chips to get a few stationery items (my little niece and nephew love colouring and painting and drawing etc, so I'm going to make them up little art kits for their birthdays this year - getting supplies for that), and also might end up buying something to wear for my SFIL's birthday party which is next weekend. Hopefully I can find something I like and isn't too expensive. Probably not.
I'm stuffed. Absolutely stuffed. I'm going to either crawl off to the couch and curl up there, or silently haunt the Simple Savings forums. Probably a mix of both.
Thursday, January 29, 2009
Woohoo My Camera's Here!
This is taken from my back door. Far off in the distance, just off the corner of the shed, you can see a sort of tower?
Our (also very hot) kelpie, Ginnie.
And Pup. Ginnie is Pup's mum, and Pup is the last one out of a litter of 9! She was born last June and we're still looking for a home for her (and she doesn't have something wrong with her nose, just has some gravel stuck to it after playing!).
No doubt I'll post more photos as I get to take them :)Well last night's play reading went very well. I was a bit nervous to start with, but didn't miss a line, so I think it went ok. We start proper rehearsals next Monday, and will have them every Monday and Thursday night until the end of May. Its going to be hectic! But good.
After we finished the read, MIL, SFIL and I were leaving and noticed a few bolts of lightning flash around. I dropped them off, then started the 18km drive home. I only just got out of town when I chickened out and turned around! There was so much lightning!! I've never seen so much over such a large area before! I have a choice of 3 roads I can take home (2 bitumen, 1 dirt) and this lightning storm covered all of these roads (a span of over 15km). It was just huge. I've almost been struck by lightning twice in my life (stories for another day) and usually it doesn't bother me at all. But there was no way I was driving through it last night! I know nothing could've happened because the rubber tyres are insulators, so if my car got zapped, the tyres would've taken the strike, but I just couldn't do it.
So, I'm laying in bed at my in-laws and I suddenly realise how hot and dry its been and how the lightning could very well spark a fire. I was concerned for my property, but I was mostly concerned about my dogs and what would happen to them if a fire started and it took a while for someone to realise. But the night went well and I came home to happy dogs this morning and an in tact property. A fire was started about 30km away, but it was contained quickly despite the conditions, so they were lucky.
Wednesday, January 28, 2009
Shit Its Hot!
Ok, so I'm a bit dramatic. But I haaaate the heat. Its been 45 degrees today, and we're not getting any relief til the weekend. So, I thought I'd test our new inverter air conditioner out, and along with my meter readings, see just how much power it uses.
What a shock.
I've had it running for about 24 hours now set to 25 degrees, so it turns itself on and off as it pleases. I've used 30kw! I usually use under 10 a day (its just me home at the moment, but we run pumps for all our water, and we also have a poor fridge in the hot shed). But, I gotta say, its been worth it! I might put a bit of extra money aside for the next power bill and just leave it running. I'm bad, I know. I've told my cousin to come over whenever he and his fiancee want - they live about half a km down the road in a very old besser brick building and its like living in an oven.
Tonight is our first read through for the play - I auditioned for the local arts group for the first time, and I've scored a part of a maid called Beth. Its a british play called Dry Rot, and I'm not sure if I'm going to talk with an accent or not. Its a bit embarrassing, but I'm sure after tonight I won't be so nervous. My MIL and SFIL (step father in law) are both in it too, and my SFIL has been in heaps of them before, so it'll be good to do something with them.
I love it when the supermarket stuffs up! They ordered some 64 page exercise books since its back to school time, but stuffed up the order and ordered way too many, so they've got them out for 5 cents each!!! I grabbed 20 of them (all that were left by the time I got there) and just think its fantastic. I'd planned on making my niece and nephew little office sets for their birthdays this year (some stickers, textas, etc) so now I can add an exercise book each (and they're Bratz and Bob The Builder type ones, so the kids will love that too).
Our dogs have one of those plastic clam shell halves as their swimming pool in weather like this, but I'm about to go put some ice in their water (drinking and pool) to keep my doggos cool!
Tuesday, January 27, 2009
Arrrrr!
After work tonight we had a Relay For Life team meeting. In a nutshell, Relay For Life is a fundraising event for the cancer council. You register your team before the event and work your butts off fundraising. You also have a theme and dress up your camp site etc. The actual Relay is very special and sort of a reward for all the hard fundraising you've been doing. Sorry, I'm not up for a big explanation tonight. Am very stuffed - after staying up late all weekend, I wasn't able to get to sleep last night. Last time I looked at the clock it was 12:30am, and then I woke up at 5. But anyway, at our team meeting, we worked out a lot of details for our costumes and camp site. We'd already decided a long time ago that we're going to be pirates, and I'm captain of the team, so I get to dress up as a pirate captain which will be great fun. No doubt I'll provide much more Relay info as it gets closer (its being held on 14-15 March).
I've asked James to buy me a homebrew kit for Kmart when he flies home next Tuesday - I can't wait!!! Its going to be so awesome. Although, I realised today that I stuff up every year. My birthday is Feb 27, and every year I hope that James will get a present for me (not necessarily something expensive, just something he's put some thought into, something a bit special), and every year I usually buy something a few weeks before my birthday that gets defaulted to birthday present. For example, yesterday I bought a digital camera, and now I want a homebrew kit.
James was telling me today that yesterday they had this snake lady up at Moomba as a bit of an entertainment/education thingo. She had 30 various snakes such as a womma, inland taipan, brown, king brown, and plenty of others. I am terrified of snakes, but even just hearing James talk about made it sound like a pretty cool presentation to see! He said she was showing how snakes can't really bite through much and also how they take a lot of provoking before they'll bite. They'd be pretty lucky (or unlucky, depending how you look at it!) to bite through jeans because the denim is a thicker fabric. Then she let a heap of the snakes loose (let me say also that they were all hand reared - not ust a few wild snakes she found on the drive up lol) and cornered one in particular and tried to provoke it and make it strike. But she couldn't do it! This poor snake was so terrified, it crawled into a little box (about the size of a muesli bar box) and hid in there. Even when she picked the box up and walked around the room with it, the snake didn't move because it was so scared. Of course there's always the exception to the rule - if you're mowing our lawn in thongs and shorts and run over a snake, of course there's a major chance that you'll get bitten. But whose fault is that? Imagine being deaf and only able to feel things by vibrations - you're laying in the sun on a nice warm day, and you feel the earth shake around you, harder and harder, and then the creature making these vibrations gets closer - you're going to do what it takes to protect yourself then run (or slither away). I'm still scared of being bitten by a snake, and they still freak me out (like sharks - there's just no soul in their eyes).
Monday, January 26, 2009
God I Love A Long Weekend
The sort of curtain is for the sidelight next to our front door, which is currently a plain piece of glass. My mother in law is a wonderful leadlight creator, but she has been flat out with many things since we moved in and we don't want to add stress to her by asking her to make a sidelight for us - she knows we want one, but we're leaving it to "whenever you have time". My nearest neighbours are 500 metres down the road, so at night time if they got their binoculars out, they could spy on us a tiny bit, but we don't generally care (the neighbours are my cousin and his fiancee who I'm sure have better things to do than watch us lol). But its a warmer day here today (max 31), and I wanted to make the house as cool as possible by doing things like putting the ceiling fans on, keeping doors shut, only opening the blinds a tiny bit etc. It helps that our house has extra insulation in the walls and ceiling! But still, the heat was coming through this exposed sidelight, so I cut up some material, put some 3M temporary hooks on the wall/door frame, sewed some buttons with a little elastic hoop to both sides of the materials, and presto - a sort of curtain!
I will be excitedly checking the mail every day this week and will hopefully find my new digital camera. Its a Canon Powershot A2000 IS and I got it for $265 on ebay with a 2gb memory card (saving about $35). I've been without a digital camera for a few months now after our last one suddenly died after 5 faithful years of service. I just can't wait to get this new one! I've missed having a camera, and the new one is a beauty that will last us for years.
As part of Better Deal month at Simple Savings, I've tried shopping around for a good insurance package over the net this weekend. We currently require home & contents, home & landlords, and car insurance for at least 2 vehicles (we have 4 - 2 are our daily drives, and the other 2 are sentimental cars which we don't register all the time - I don't think the latter are insured at the moment, but I'm thinking perhaps they should be - need to discuss with James). Anyway, I'm a 23 year old who has never been booked for anything except a few speeding tickets, have never been in a car accident, or made claims on any vehicles, so therefore have a nice clean record. I've never ever missed any insurance payments. Yet, through their online "get a quote" facility, I'm yet to find an insurer who will actually insure me. I currently have insurance for my V8 (another hurdle the insurers don't like...) through CGU who I got though a local broker. Me thinks I might have to go back to the broker to try and see what deal I can get from them by combining all our insurances. I thought perhaps the online thingos don't like me trying to get insurance for my V8, so I tried it again from scratch for our Navara, but they didn't like that either. Bloody insurance companies!
Also with Better Deal month, I've looked at www.uswitch.com.au to find a better electricity provider, and they've come up with Simply Energy. I'm a bit wary of moving to lessor known provider - I tend to think "if they're so good, how come more people don't know about them?". I dunno. I just don't want to be gypped. Speaking of electricity, I've started tracking my usage as of yesterday. Not sure how this is going to help considering I think we're pretty good with our usage, but I guess there's always room for improvement, and it'll be easier to know how much the bill will be before it comes in.
My father in law has recently started to make some homebrew, and I must say, he's getting some wonderful results! And after talking to Faye and reading some of her blog, I think I may just have to investigate more - I mean, homebrew champagne?! Wow! James can only drink beer such as Hahn Super Dry or Pure Blonde that has no additives or preservatives otherwise he gets sick - I wonder if I can make homebrew with the same stuff? I know in our tiny country town supermarket you can get the Coopers kits - time to do some investigating :) Then our bar really will be complete!!
Sunday, January 25, 2009
All organised - that feels better!
We have not been Simple Savers at all this month - we bought a boat and a billiard table. They're both items on our wishlist, but neither of us expected to be buying them so soon. My mum is sadly a pokie addict, but she won $10k this month and gave us some money, so that took care of paying for the boat, and we had enough to buy the billiard table as well. They're both good things in the long run - the billiard table is already proving its worth by providing lots of in home entertainment - instead of going out, we've had friends over every Friday and Saturday night for drinks and a few games, so its proving to be great. After moving out of the town, we'd planned to make ourselves a "bar" with everything we'd normally get at the pub (well nearly everything - we don't have beer on tap, but there's certainly some in the fridge!). Our mates love it and its certainly cheaper than a night out at the pub.
The boat however has come with trouble. It was being sold through a local general store and its owner lives in Adelaide (has a holiday property down this way). He assured us it was fine and worked well and he'd never had trouble with it. James took puppa down to look at it, and he gave it the stamp of approval. They weren't able to start the motor though because it'll break it if it doesn't get started in water. So, boat bought, brought home, and lovingly dusted off. The big moment comes when its time to start the motor... except the motor doesn't start. So James takes it off to a local boat motor mechanic who promptly finds that the piston has melted inside. This is a very big deal. It is not easy to melt a piston. It generally happens when the motor is started out of the water, and because there's no water to pump through, well I'm sure you can imagine what happens. A very very loud bang, probably lots of smoke, and in our case, a motor that is simply not worth fixing (it'd be cheaper to buy another motor than it would be to replace the piston since it has melted in such a way). So after a few tantys by James, we decide to fork out $500 to buy a secondhand motor which seems to be of the same vintage as the boat (both look like they're from the 60s). To be on the safe side, James and Puppa spend time performing general maintenance on the replacement motor before even thinking about starting it. But eventually the time comes when its ready to push the magical button... and what do you know, it works! Hurrah!
The boat was been wonderful to cruise around in and is much comfier than our old dinghy. Strange discovery though - I've gotten sea sick in boats before about 12-14ft big, but never once felt sick in our little dinghy. After a few goes in the new boat, I started to feel very green (new boat is 15ft). Not sure what it is about bigger boats (and they're not big by most people's standards!), but I just can't stomach them for too long. This is ok though - I'm perfectly happy basking in the warmth of the shade on the beach, reading a book in between naps, while the boys go out fishing or just generally boating around.
So now that we've bought two big ticket items in less than a month, its time to curb the spending a bit. We're not in any financial trouble, it just seems to be wise to keep a lid on things for a little while. Having said that, I believe Clive will be helping James line the games room next time James is home - another big expense! But another worthwile cost. Very worthwhile actually it will help keep the dust out and temperature down, not to mention it will look very nice.
Saturday, January 24, 2009
I'm In Love
We have 15 trees planted so far and I think I might go and buy a few more tomorrow. It'll be hard work on the crowbar to dig holes for them, but that will be good for me. Its hard work for James in a few spots - bloody limestone! Limestone has been both a blessing and a curse for us - if Rocy Glen didn't have limestone, it wouldn't have its name, but it probably would have also been sold off as viable farming land a long time ago. But its still painful for us - having the septic trench dug wasn't pretty! But its part of our home.
We have 2 dwarf sugar gums (eucalyptus cladocalyx nana), 4 eucalyptus cladocalyx (sugar gum), 1 eucalyptus lansdowneana subsp. albo purpurea (crimson mallee), 2 eucalyptus torwood, apparently 3 eucalyptus sideroxylon rosea (pink flowering ironbark) - one looks completely different from the other two so I think one may have been mislabelled, 1 eucalyptus leucoxylon (rosea), 1 eucalyptus forrestiana (fuschia gum) and 1 eucalyptus caesia (silver princess - or as James calls it, our "Sarah" tree).
Tonight I ate my first ever home grown cherry tomato, and god it was good! No pesticides or chemicals or even fertiliser - just straight dirt and regular watering! There are so many tomatoes waiting to redden up - its great! My other veggies are growing as well and all have flowers - lebanese cucumber, mixed capsicum, and butternut pumpkins. I love it!
Our old house is still up for sale after over a year on the market, and someone suggested that I make a memory box of the house, and shut the lid on it (physically and metophorically) to resolve any outstanding attachment to the house that may be subconsciously warding off potential buyers. May sound like mumbo jumbo, but hell, I'll give anything a shot. So, earlier in the week, I completed my memory box and shut the lid. We had someone look though the house on Thursday and we apparently talking to their bank yesterday, so I hope its done the trick. If not, I've still got a lovely memory box that I'll treasure for years to come.
Sheryn and Rob are going to buy me a fruit tree for my birthday which will be absolutely lovely. Sheryn and I went to the garden centre earlier in the week to see what they had in stock, and I left her with the choice of an apricot or a lemon tree. Their apricot tree went absolutely berserk this year - it was fantastic! So many apricots, all for free, and so much better quality than the crappy cardboard supermaret ones (that cost around $12 a kilo!!). Now I just have to plan where I'm going to have an orchard. People have given me advice about having them near the eucalypts we've already planted so I'm not gallavanting across the countryside all the time to water trees, but I was thinking of the area behing the shed (sort of between the shed and the motorbike track). Will see what James thinks.
Last time he was away at work, our windmill came loose. We'd had it tied up because its very old and disconnected from a pump, so to leave it going will quickly wear out its parts and render it useless. Well, its kind of useless at the moment, but I just love it to bits. James knows stacks about windmills after working on sheep stations (he regularly did maintenance on their windmills) and I asked him if it was worth getting parts for ours, not necessarily to pump the bore with, but just to be able to have the windmill spin around, but he said it wouldn't be worth it because it would only end up wearing the old thing out. So, for those few days where it flapped and spun around in the wind, I just loved it. Not sure exactly why, I just did.
Friday, January 23, 2009
23 January 2008
Our games room is just amazing. James has done so much work in there, and its a really wonderful, fun place. We've got our big projector screen and projector, our bar, a table and chairs, couch, and recently have added a billiard table. And its still comfortable, like its not squeezy or packed in. Its been great to reuse some of our old furniture as well - like we've got our old purple couch in there, and the table and chairs outdoor set we got as an engagement present is in there which is great cos it gets it out the weather and away from the dogs (which will make it last longer - despite being an ourdoor setting, it was starting to deteriorate).
We still don't have a landline phone - I applied for one back in September and Telstra are still fucking us around! They're absolutely hopeless. We got our internet installed this week though so at least I have the phone through that. Sheryn was telling me today that Cindy's phone has been disconnected - Cindy claims its some problem with Telstra, but its pretty clear to us that its probably because they didn't pay their bill. I don't know how they can live on the edge so much. I guess they didn't choose to all at once, just many many bad decisions have added up and provided this result. I feel sorry for them, but they're also kind of role models of what not to do, unfortunately.
I started off in a great routine once we moved out here - the house was always clean and it was never any fuss because it was all kept up with. The house isn't a bombsite at the moment, not cose, but I'm a bit out of my routine and it shows. Might be time to take this Australia Day long weekend to an advantage and get back on top!
We had Angela and Jason look at the house yesterday - they loved it and were apparently talking to their bank today. I just hope they can afford enough to put a good offer in because I just really want to be rid of the house. I'm really starting to feel desperate about moving on - I want to get off the corporate carousel and into being a stay at home mum.
Monday, June 2, 2008
Garden Bed Building
Ginnie is still pregnant. Very very very pregnant. She's like a pregnant lady whose belly button goes flat - Ginnie's stomach is very tight. I think she'll have 7, James thinks 9, and Shane thinks 10. We're not sure when she became pregnant since we put her wit Ash twice, but if she conceived the first time, then today is her 63rd day (which means she'll probably have them tonight - the gestational period is 59 to 63 days). For over a week now, I've checked on her as soon as I get up, and every day she's still pregnant!
Saturday, May 17, 2008
Some changes, glorious rain, and work troubles
We've had a nice rain front come over yesterday and today. Yesterday we have 18.5 points and I don't know how much we've had today - I'm about to go out and check. Its exciting to go check it and hear the water rushing into the rainwater tanks.
I've been having some trouble at work with Marilyn but I'm hoping its getting sorted out now. On Monday when I came back to work, it was as bad as I expected and instead of her taking my corrections well, she got mad at me. I just really don't like her. We don't really interact with each other at all unless we have to - she does her job, and I do mine. Although I'm wondering if she's going to complain about me cause I've been spending a lot of time out the front lately - one time I was going out to the supermarket and starting my lunch break when I realised the reception trainee was all by herself, so I sat with her and waited 45 minutes until Sheryn came back from lunch (she was running late) and then had my own 30 minutes break - trainees aren't supposed to be left unsupervised. Then yesterday I knew I'd want to go to the supermarket and do a big shop during the day, so I got to work 20 minutes early. In the middle of the day, I spent 20 minutes in the supermarket, then when I got back, Sheryn asked if I wanted to have lunch with her, so I went and did that - as far as I'm concerned everything I've done has been above board, but Marilyn doesn't know that and I'm away from my desk for about an hour and she might assume I'm having a long break. I don't know.
Ginnie is most definitely pregnant. She's made a spot in the garden to whelp, her mammary glands are swelling up and she's definitely getting fatter in the right place. Even though she's got a few more weeks left, I still check her out each morning in case the puppies come early! Cindy thinks Daisy might be pregnant too cause her mammary glands have swollen a lot (Daisy was on heat shortly after Ginnie) - they didn't put her with another dog but the neighbours dog might have jumped the fence when they weren't home or something.
Monday, May 12, 2008
Update
The house is going well. The flooring has been finished, we've got a proper driveway, the electricity has been turned on, we've got a tv aerial, the pavers have been delivered, and the shed materials have been delivered. We got a great 20ml of rain out there a few weeks ago so that was a great boost to the tanks. Someone has bought the land next door and put some sheep and cattle on it - its nice to sit at our temporary dining table, look out the window and see the cows wandering around.
I'm about to become a golfer. I played 12 holes on Anzac Day with James and two other people and we won! I had a few shit hits and one of the other guys tried to be nice and give me pointers, but I know when suck and I know how to fix it, so I got upset. Not directly to him, but James could see the steam coming out of my ears. Nevertheless, I have officially ordered some new golf clubs (a set of Wilson Hopes - they're pink!) and will get my handicap this season and sometimes play on Saturdays. It was Australiana Night at the golf club on Saturday and I went over to Viv to ask if she wouldn't mind coming out me (to get your handicap, you play 3 x 18 holes with a club member and then it gets worked out). I said that I'd ordered some clubs and wanted my handicap but before I could ask her anything, Adey jumps in and says she'll come out with me any time I want and to just let her know. I was blown away! She's been telling me to get my handicap for ages but I just haven't felt ready. I feel more confident now, but I still need to practise a lot, but as James said - if I go for it and get a crap handicap, by the end of the season I should have knocked a few points off and improved.
Back to work today - I've been sick since last Tuesday. I'm not really looking forward to going back. Its not necessarily work, I just don't really like Marilyn. She's been really hard to teach and she just doesn't seem to read her notes and do things properly.
Today is going to be really long - I'm tired already! Really don't want to go to work...
Sunday, April 20, 2008
More progress
I’ve got a few things to report on, but aren’t really in the mood tonight. First thing is that Sheryn and went to and auction yesterday and I had a fairly successful day. I got a nice wooden dining table with 6 chairs for $22 – Sheryn and I will recover the cushions in the seats cause they’re a yellow colour at the moment that I don’t like. Recovering is easy (we’ve done it before) so they’ll be fine. I also got a little garden setting (two chairs and a table). They have a proper name, but I forgot what it is. The type was originally made of cast iron, but the newer stuff isn’t (but its still nice). I’ve always thought one would be nice, so now I’ve got one for $24. One of Traci’s friends got to the auction late and couldn’t believe the price I’d paid for those – she said she would have easily gone up to $100 for the dining set and gave up bidding against me for the garden set cause she could see I meant business! But she also said that if I wanted to get rid of it one day, that she would have it. My other purchases were a Clarion cd player (for a car) for $11 – James is always putting things in cars so I thought this would come in useful one day (all our cars except the datsun have cd players, so I guess the datsun can have this one).
My last purchase was a big garbage bag full of plastic garden pots which I wanted because I’ve got over 500 bulbs to plant for my transportable garden. Which brings me to today – today I potted up the jonquils, daffodils and freesias. 100 bulbs down, only 400 to go... at least I know what I’ll be doing with any spare time I get in the next few weeks!
James will be home again at the end of the week. He was supposed to go up for two weeks, then come home for one, but when he got there his boss said they’d replaced him already so only needed him for one week then he could go. We’re both pretty happy about that cause we’ll get more time together (one week just isn’t enough, but we’d have survived if we had to) and also it means he’ll be home for Kimberly’s 21st. We haven’t told her yet (going to keep it as a surprise).
So anyway, that’s the latest. I’m winding down for the night and think I’m going to go have a glass of red. Does anyone actually read this? I don’t really care – its more of a record for myself, but just wondering? Good night J
Friday, April 18, 2008
Breakdown
James has gone back to Moomba to work for Bardrill for the last time. Megan met us at Port Wakefield which was nice of her, but I really don’t want to see her because she’s pregnant. I told James that I didn’t want to stay for long because I wasn’t very hungry and I wanted to get back on the road to make the most of the last of the daylight cause I hate driving at night. Both were true, but he saw right through me and knew it was also because I didn’t want to see her. So we had a bit of a chat and I had a bit of a breakdown but it was what I needed because I’ve been holding in all those feelings for a little while now and I just really needed James’s support which I got. By the time we got to Port Wakefield, I was still a bit teary but soon calmed down and by the time Megan got there I was fine. I put my act on like always and was nice and smiled and asked her how she was going (how was uni, had she had any morning sickness etc) and I was proud of myself afterwards because I was able to be strong and not immature or childish.
I was disappointed in myself today though. I emailed Melissa and bitched about how much Megan ate and how much weight she’ll probably put on. I think I was reacting to what happened at lunch time – there was a 2nd hand sale at the church so Sheryn and I went for a look and she of course oohed and ahhed over the baby stuff. I can be civil to Megan, but I just can’t get excited and really feel happy in my heart.
On another topic, I had lunch with Cath yesterday. It felt awkward for me cause we haven’t seen each other in a year and so much has happened and I just really don’t know what to talk about. I was thinking though that Cath will be home when James and I hopefully have a baby next year so that will be nice. I hope that we’re able to spend more time together and catch up and become close friends properly again. I think a lot will hinge on James – he’s so... arrogant I think is the word. And stereotypical in the way that he thinks all people from England are the same and what he tries to say as jokes aren’t really funny or good and just make things awkward. I know he means well, but he is just a bit narrow minded sometimes. I hope that once we meet and get to know Tim that James will be nice and not a jerk and it will all just be good.
